March Slice Challenge #4
Yesterday I took M to get his hair cut. It was his third haircut in his entire life. The first time was last year and we went to a barber shop that had a little fire engine for him to sit in while his hair was being cut. He was very brave and only shed a few tears. He watched an episode of Thomas the Tank Engine and proudly accepted a lollipop after. I took a billion pictures, collected a little swatch of his baby hair to save, and couldn’t keep myself from rubbing his little boy head the rest of the day. He smelled like aftershave and I realized he was already starting to grow up as fast as everyone told me he would.
Haircut #1 August, 2014
The second time he got his haircut it was pretty spontaneous. His hair was getting so long and always stuck up and tickled his ears. It annoyed him so while we were grabbing some slices of pizza, Mr. O’Brien and I took him to a salon next door. This time was different. It wasn’t as ceremonial either. For starters, he screamed his head off. He did not appreciate the loud clippers and two nice ladies trying to console him. He didn’t care about a lollipop…he wanted out of there.
I didn’t know how he would react for the third trip. We arrived just before dark and thankfully we didn’t have to wait long. He sat up on the barber chair on the little booster seat and they draped the cloth around him. He smiled and we pointed to the basket of “pops” (lollipops) next to the cash register. I was relieved. So far, so good.
And then the clippers started BUZZING and BUZZING and BUZZING near his little face and he screamed. With terrified eyes, he bellowed. He lunged forward out of the chair at me as hair flew everywhere! I tried to console him and showed him the “pop” he would get in a few minutes but it was no use. The barber was determined to hurry and finish; he was a little stern and probably stressed by the situation. After all, he was moving so much he was at risk of being cut or nicked by the scissors and clippers. I suggested that M may calm down if I could sit him on my lap while he finished.
We did just that. M clung to me like a cat avoiding a bath. We gave him a “pop” to suck while the clippers buzzed and hummed and vibrated for round after round. This distracted him somewhat and M settled down. He was face to face with me sitting on my lap and he was getting his hot tears all over me. I noticed his lollipop was getting little hairs all over it and it was gross but I didn’t dare take the pop away from him since he was calming down. I gave my brave boy a kiss and he offered his “pop” to me in gratitude. Toward the end of the ordeal, I noticed M looking at himself in the mirror. His eyebrows raised and he tilted his head, curious about his fresh reflection.
When we were all done, there was applause and cheers and another “pop” to go for bravery. We paid and gave the barber an extra tip for his patience and tenacity. On the way out of the barber shop, M walked a little taller and seemed very proud of himself.
On the drive home, he turned his head left and right, left and right, left and right, against his car seat. He was experiencing the sensation of a fresh haircut, all the while smiling to himself, whispering, “Mmm…pop.” Victory tastes sweet.